‘lists’ and well, of course since I’m getting married I started a ‘wedding list’. It’s pretty short right now, but on that list I have, “DJ or band can not play the chicken dance song, or Macarena, electric slide I’m letting ‘slide’ (pun intended, sorry) because my fiancé really likes it and she’s a dancer. It’s the compromising that gives you power…….muahahahahahahahaha